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And all those days in between
Hello, fellow bebbehs! not much to tell these days. Got my kid Friday, will probably have to take her back to my parents today. This really sux, and I am fucking hating it. She's been SOOOO good for me, and I've missed her terribly. I just can't find another option. Day care is out of my reach. Period. I can't bear to leave her alone all day, she's not dependable at all.
We went to see Kit Kittredge yesterday afternoon - Scarlett and I were the only two in the theater. It's received poor reviews, which to me just says that clean family movies are becoming a thing of the past. It was very well done, had well known actors who performed nicely, and was beautifully shot. It was also rated "G". I guess that's a death knell these days. We enjoyed the movie, and will probably buy it when it comes out on DVD.
We've done house work all weekend. Brent will come over later this afternoon to help me permanently affix the slats to my bed frame. I'll be meeting Leigh in an hour or two to get a key to her house. I'm going to help her girlfriend Katie feed her cats while she and her family are gone.
Right now Scarlett is watching some stupid Nickelodeon movie that is quickly getting on my nerves. Not sure if I can stand two hours worth. Maybe it's time to do some more housework. o_O?
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Date: 2008-07-14 01:45 pm (UTC)I work in social service, so please forgive the impertinent question - it's an occupational hazard. Are you sure there are no community centers or programs to pay for afterschool care in your area? I know every state is different, but here, through our local workforce program, they paid for my niece's son's daycare so that she could remain employed. She only had to pay $1 a day.
You might try calling Child Care Aware at 800-424-2246, and asking about subsidized programs in your area. Or in your state, you can dial 211 for referrals to local services. I can't tell you how many times in our work we find that there are services available, but people just don't know about the services. It's worth a try!
Please forgive me if I'm being obnoxious. I don't know your whole situation, so I really shouldn't be putting my two cents in, but I just can't overcome that urge to help. :-)
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Date: 2008-07-14 02:12 pm (UTC)Because I receive child support I'm probably more aware of these sorts of programs, as they've been recommended before.
This is one of the reasons I'm pushing my boyfriend for marriage - we could make it better with our combined incomes than either one of us are doing right now. If we stayed in my apartment for six months, we could save enough in rent alone to either buy a house or rent a larger condo. I'm probably too practical for my own good.
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Date: 2008-07-14 03:35 pm (UTC)It's terrific that we have kids the same age! It's funny, but for years I didn't know anyone (that I could relate to, anyway) with kids, and now I have three LJ friends with kids the same age as my youngest.
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Date: 2008-07-14 03:04 pm (UTC)I'll have to check out WALL-E. I'm a fan of the Pixar movies. :) Might be able to catch it on an early bird special one day this week... at $4.75! Plus the place I want to see it at is just 3 miles away, so I won't lose a lot of gas, or have to ride the subway to NYC. (I generally find the theaters in NYC to be better than the ones in Jersey City.)
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Date: 2008-07-16 12:49 am (UTC)There are many paths...