eHarmony is shit. Their physical attribute questions are not fat friendly. you can basically either say you're fat and have low self esteem or high self esteem and therefore must be skinny. unless they changed it from a year ago when I siged up. I met NO ONE! in my area who was a good match and no one in any overlying areas, this is mainly due to the fact that you cannot explain a fat physique without it coming off negative. don't waste your time or money.
match.com is no better, there was that huge scandal about their employees contacting members just to keep them interested...i wouldn't trust them. ive had really good luck lately with matchdoctor and TONS of dates and exposure with BBPeopleMeet.com greta sites imo. There's LargeandLovely.com as well, which is completely free, so it has it's draw back s with people on there not being serious about finding a suitable mate and just on there for fun.
LavaLife has a voicemail system where it's completely free for the ladies, and the men have to pay (the way it should be). There's different categories; serious relationships, casual, sex, swing, etc. I haven't tried this one myself because I'm extremely shy on the phone and talk REALLY fast so people have a hard time understanding me sometimes; but I have 2 friends who've met some really great guys and had relationships.
aas far as the layout goes, HELLO!!!!!??!?!???? you could've asked me.
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Date: 2006-04-10 07:27 pm (UTC)match.com is no better, there was that huge scandal about their employees contacting members just to keep them interested...i wouldn't trust them. ive had really good luck lately with matchdoctor and TONS of dates and exposure with BBPeopleMeet.com greta sites imo. There's LargeandLovely.com as well, which is completely free, so it has it's draw back s with people on there not being serious about finding a suitable mate and just on there for fun.
LavaLife has a voicemail system where it's completely free for the ladies, and the men have to pay (the way it should be). There's different categories; serious relationships, casual, sex, swing, etc. I haven't tried this one myself because I'm extremely shy on the phone and talk REALLY fast so people have a hard time understanding me sometimes; but I have 2 friends who've met some really great guys and had relationships.
aas far as the layout goes, HELLO!!!!!??!?!???? you could've asked me.