No, she's not on my friends list. I wouldn't give it another thot, if I were you. It was a nice community to start with, but she really got carried away, even before she was made a mod.
Here's what was said:
Hmm. Interesting statements, girls. True, she doesn't meet the requirements, and heaven knows that will bring on a rejection stamp from certain corners. *insert eyeroll* I respect your opinions Vek. And if you don't want someone whose political beliefs are so far different from yours in this group, then you are a strong woman for saying so. I also respect your opinions Jeannie. And maybe she's not quite bbw-material. I don't get the impression that this woman would be a Nazi-type once she were in, trying to force all of us to change our views. I think she'd probably just state her opinions, and let us state ours. Pretty much how I try to be. I see some similarities (Okay, yes, liking the Carpenters does make you a dork! But not Barry. NEVER Barry) This might not be the community for you. I certainly don't agree with all your viewpoints, but I'd consider adding you to my friends list. I wouldn't 'lick' you, like I would Vek there *shiftyeyes* But I'd friend you.
As for rating, I'd give you a six. This will probably be the only no I ever vote, too. But it's not that you aren't for us. Its more that we aren't the community for you. Her reply was: If you were referring to me on the rejection stamp crack, watch it. Like it or not, we have rules, and like it or not, I am a mod with the power to ban smartasses if need be.
Deal with it. My reply was: WATCH IT? I've checked the rules, Tami. There's not one in there that says I can be banned for being a smartass. So YOU'D be BREAKING THE RULES, TAMI, if you decided to ban me for that. And we all know how you HATE to be accused of breaking the rules. I have sat here and watched you bitch and moan about the number of pics and the wording on the lj cut long enough. I cringed to see you made a mod, cause power in the hands of an anal-retentive has been known to have bad results. (*see Germany) This community was not created to force us all into a cookie-cutter stamp of conformity. In the interest of protecting your poor anal psyche from the trauma of breaking the rules and banning me, I'll do YOU a favor and drop out on my own. Thank God this is the only community I belong to where you are a mod and not just a lowly member like the rest of us. Hopefully you can restrain yourself, as I have managed to do, when our paths cross elsewhere. Her reply was: You know something, mutual respect may not be written in the rules, but it is expected out of everyone. Check my intro post.
Having respect for someone, imho, is different from trying to force them to conform.
You know, I've been miserable in Dom/sub relationships that were vanilla. And I've been blissfully happy in at least one, as well. Its just the right combination. . . .
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Here's what was said:
Hmm. Interesting statements, girls. True, she doesn't meet the requirements, and heaven knows that will bring on a rejection stamp from certain corners. *insert eyeroll* I respect your opinions Vek. And if you don't want someone whose political beliefs are so far different from yours in this group, then you are a strong woman for saying so. I also respect your opinions Jeannie. And maybe she's not quite bbw-material. I don't get the impression that this woman would be a Nazi-type once she were in, trying to force all of us to change our views. I think she'd probably just state her opinions, and let us state ours. Pretty much how I try to be. I see some similarities (Okay, yes, liking the Carpenters does make you a dork! But not Barry. NEVER Barry) This might not be the community for you. I certainly don't agree with all your viewpoints, but I'd consider adding you to my friends list. I wouldn't 'lick' you, like I would Vek there *shiftyeyes* But I'd friend you.
As for rating, I'd give you a six. This will probably be the only no I ever vote, too. But it's not that you aren't for us. Its more that we aren't the community for you.
Her reply was:
If you were referring to me on the rejection stamp crack, watch it. Like it or not, we have rules, and like it or not, I am a mod with the power to ban smartasses if need be.
Deal with it.
My reply was:
WATCH IT? I've checked the rules, Tami. There's not one in there that says I can be banned for being a smartass. So YOU'D be BREAKING THE RULES, TAMI, if you decided to ban me for that. And we all know how you HATE to be accused of breaking the rules. I have sat here and watched you bitch and moan about the number of pics and the wording on the lj cut long enough. I cringed to see you made a mod, cause power in the hands of an anal-retentive has been known to have bad results. (*see Germany) This community was not created to force us all into a cookie-cutter stamp of conformity. In the interest of protecting your poor anal psyche from the trauma of breaking the rules and banning me, I'll do YOU a favor and drop out on my own. Thank God this is the only community I belong to where you are a mod and not just a lowly member like the rest of us. Hopefully you can restrain yourself, as I have managed to do, when our paths cross elsewhere.
Her reply was:
You know something, mutual respect may not be written in the rules, but it is expected out of everyone. Check my intro post.
Having respect for someone, imho, is different from trying to force them to conform.
You know, I've been miserable in Dom/sub relationships that were vanilla. And I've been blissfully happy in at least one, as well. Its just the right combination. . . .