I TOLD adidaschica that you hadn't deleted that post, that Tami had. You've just confirmed my suspicions. I told her that it was a pity, because now no one will know what happens if someone tries to get on the site and the members feel she doesn't fit in. She deleted my entry as well. I saved what I wrote to her, I'm thinking of posting on my lj as a record of why I left the community. When agonystar gets back, I wonder what will happen, if she will even notice.

Anyway, I'm very interested to see that you and I think along similar lines religiously. I've only recently come into my understanding of the Dom/sub dynamic in my life, and while the memories are still very bittersweet, my mind has been opened in a way I never dreamed possible. And it all started when one man took the time to show me what it could be like. Even tho it was online, and not real-life, it just opened my eyes to the things I've written about up there. ^^^ I've been surprised that this post has gotten any response at all. I'm very pleased that there's been no real negativity. I love my lj friends.